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Ooh.. I'm getting build up of emails to reply to - that's new  ;-)

I'm more than happy to do that. The benefit you're proposing I get for you failing to be plugged 3 hrs a week seems generous, but then it is a modest target you are setting yourself and having the potential bonus so heavily in my favour should act as suitable encouragement for you.

I think you are right to set a relatively low minimum target that's going to encourage you to plug up more than you do currently .. rather than a higher one that could maybe become a burden or push you further than you are comfortable with and could end up having the opposite effect. And whenever you exceed that target of 3 hours you have the satisfaction of knowing that every extra hour you do earns me penalty time.

I know what you mean about needing the incentive of having someone to 'report' to - I've tried self locking in the past and it just doesn't work (for me).. its just not the same without having someone else to say 'oh, I've only managed to do xxxx today' to. There has to be either an incentive or a consequence really. And as I have been learning over the last month, it doesn't have to be a 'master' figure either.

Hmmm... kinda jealous now - I'd like to feel my jock sliding around in a well lubed up jock - but that's not gonna happen anytime soon I guess!

"Not quite sure now who's the sub"... Hahaha - the answer to that of course is both of us. ... is there such a thing as an alpha sub? Btw.. I think it's uber cool that access to my cock is in the hands of and effectively controlled not by a 'master' or 'dom' type figure, but a fellow 'sub' guy, 200 odd miles away, who I've never met and has little or no interest in me sexually!

'Think on' ... I am! (So want that chain padlocked around my neck! - So like the thought of you plugging your arse to ensure I don't get let out too!)  :-)

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Hmmm.... thinking...

You find being buttplugged one of the more difficult 'fetish' things to do don't you? You could spend much more time wearing rubber or Lycra for instance?

A possible alternative to the days bonus if you fail to do your 3hr target could be that every week you achieve your target, the following week I have to match that time with an activity that I find of equal difficulty - wearing just my Lycra tri-suit or an item of rubber in public for example. ... With of course a suitably harsh penalty if I fail to match your efforts!

Or... I must be plugged whenever you are (would need advance warning for that tho)

Or.. Any week you fail to do your target, the following week any time I spend plugged is worth double (or alternative task of similar difficulty)

Just a couple of thoughts  :-)

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..or, being more 'evil' ..any week you fail to reach your target, you have to complete my next lottery task! With me getting a weeks bonus if you fail or decline that task!  :-)