Controlling mortice

I would like to do more with:

• Chastity and cum control
• Butt plugging
• Wearing rubber gear
• Wearing tight or skimpy gear out (in warm weather)

These are things I 'self-order' myself to do occasionally, but I would like to be mentored/controlled so.

I like the idea that if someone whom I respect tells me to do something then I will do it and not want to let them down. That sort of respect needs to be developed, of course.

There are various limitations with this sort of control: