Controlling mortice

I would like to do more with:

• Chastity and cum control
• Butt plugging
• Wearing rubber gear
• Wearing tight or skimpy gear out (in warm weather)

These are things I 'self-order' myself to do occasionally, but I would like to be mentored/controlled so.

I like the idea that if someone whom I respect tells me to do something then I will do it and not want to let them down. That sort of respect needs to be developed, of course.

There are various limitations with this sort of control:

1. For me, chastity and cum control are not about going as long as possible without cumming. I quite like the idea of 'feast and famine' - a while restricted and a while not (or controlled in a different way) - although my ideas on this stuff will develop as I do them
2. I've not gone for long in a chastity device - never reached a week. I'm happy to experiment and work up to stuff, but anyone who tells me to lock up for a month from the beginning won't get far
3. I find it a lot easier doing cum control through willpower, although it's a different experience
4. Cum control can involve various 'levels' - see Chastity_device_use_ideas#Sub_control_levels - I have in the past played where someone has sent me a message saying "code red now" or "code green for 10 minutes, then yellow"
5. Wearing a buttplug can be 'hit and miss' - sometimes my bowels 'reject' one after 10 minutes or so, and sometimes I've put a plug in early evening and kept it in until morning
6. I find it reasonably easy to wear rubber shorts or jock hidden under clothing in most situations